You know the worst thing about getting out of a relationship? It's not spending weekends by yourself. It's not being depressed. The worst thing about getting out of a relationship is that you lose your best friend, who cares about you, who listens to you whenever you need to vent, and who makes you feel secure. I miss that more than anything.
People told me how they are jealous that I could still be friends with girls I dated. I thought this was the case until recently. I can't be friends with them because it hurts them for me to talk to them. I decided to not get hurt so it doesn't bother me anymore, but I don't want to hurt them so I shouldn't talk to them. No, I can't be friends with girls I dated because I care about them too much.
They are better off without me. What they probably don't realize is that while they are still hanging out friends on weekends, I am in my apartment by myself doing absolutely nothing productive. Do I feel bad for myself? No. I deserve it. I hope they will be happy.
I know many girls don't like this movie. Now you understand why many guys don't like "chick flicks" (I am not pointing at myself).
Another thing I like about this movie is how Tom was willing to ask a girl out even after his heart got destroyed. He realized that things do happen for a reason and was able to move on from his last relationship. It's true that I can relate to his emotions during his dating period but I love how this movie ends. It gives me hope. It teaches me that I need to take a chance, two chances, or however chances I need to take.
"To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven." -Ecclesiastes 3:1-
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